Like the Waves

My father, a local leader in our church, and my mother have been like rocks, enduring the relentless waves of life's challenges. Their strength in adversity deeply influenced me, especially as I navigated the initial loneliness following Sarah’s affair. Therapy has been pivotal, enhancing my self-awareness and guiding my growth, echoing the themes of persistence and courage akin to those in Teddy Roosevelt’s "The Man in the Arena." I’ve come to understand, much like the ideas explored in Yung Pueblo’s Lighter, that our identities are fluid and evolving is key to healing. Embracing change, and understanding that nothing about us is ever static, aligns with the idea that the ego often clings to labels, which can hinder our growth. Healing is about sustained growth, sometimes necessitating help to shift perspectives.
Each day presents an opportunity for personal growth, a chance to redefine myself as a husband, father, and individual. Like my parents, who have weathered life's storms with resilience, I am committed to a path of honesty and continual self-improvement. This journey of evolution is not just about overcoming challenges, but also about becoming more compassionate, understanding, and connected to the depths of the human experience. It’s a journey of continual self-discovery, focused on building a future founded on trust, love, and understanding. In this process, I've learned the importance of being like the waves, not just the rocks – adaptable, ever-changing, and resilient. This approach, inspired by the lessons from my parents and insights similar to those in Lighter, is what guides me through life's complexities and helps in forging a path of genuine healing and growth.